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Amroj Sandhu's avatar

Motivating story Kristen. I am in a job trying to find a way out of. Keep sharing your stories. 🙂

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Dr Mike Hunter's avatar

I can identify with your story.

This is my story.

Depression and anxiety forced me into early retirement.

Not something I ever imagined would be part of my story, but here we are.

Looking back, I understand when things began to unravel. It was subtle at first, a creeping self-doubt that seemed to materialise out of nowhere in the middle of a successful career. Questions I’d never asked before suddenly became constant companions: Am I good enough? What if I make a mistake? What if I fail?

Sleep abandoned me. Nights became battlegrounds where anxious thoughts waged war against rest. Days blurred together in a fog of exhaustion and uncertainty.

But the real revelation came much later, when I finally had the space to reflect on what had happened.

I had forgotten the most fundamental rule of caring: you cannot pour from an empty cup.

While I was busy ensuring everyone else’s needs were met, colleagues, students, family, friends, I neglected the person who needed attention most. Me.

No self-care routines. No boundaries. No recognition that my own well-being was not just important but essential.

I share this not to dwell in regret, but as a reminder to you , reading this right now:

Make time for your own well-being. It’s not selfish. It’s necessary.

Take care of yourself. The world needs you whole.

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